Upon further inspection, here is where its at. When wired like I have it, the heating circuit at posts 5-6 work as they should, when not in heating mode, no continuity, and when the unit is powered off, they are off. However, the cooling circuit, does not behave properly, it remains on in cooling/heating mode, and when the unit is powered off.
So I thought maybe just cooling side is bad, so switched wiring and made it into heat only mode. Now I am getting the opposite effect. Does this have anything to do with the wiring diagram on unit saying 10A/240VAC above posts for cooling/heating? Should I just put another hot power lead into non-used side? Very confused here.