I'd suggest going to a local electrical supply shop and they should be able to get you what you need. They them you need a 'Normally Open Definite Purpose Contactor' that can handle 50A 250V on 2 poles, with a 120VAC coil voltage (or whatever type of voltage you plan to have available to actuate the coil) I think it would be easier to mount than a switch that could handle that, and you get the satisfying 'clunk' when you actuate it
EDIT: The one I purchased above cost me $25 at a local supply shop, though I see them selling for $40-$75 online.