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07-27-2007, 03:31 PM
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RDWHA--oh your underage...
Man being young is all about making mistakes....you can screw up now and bounce back. So, don't worry about anything....do whatever makes you happy.
If she's making you get drunk and post on a forum then sounds like a bad deal.
Also, heartache builds character.....All of the coolest people out there were f'ed up so how. Read Kerouac.....or read about Salvedor Dali. Both very cool but crazy as all get out.
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07-27-2007, 03:34 PM
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Originally Posted by the_Roqk
You can love somone and still not be IN LOVE with them. But you can't make someone love you back.
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I think we are in a semantic hangup. Self-serving desire is not love. Love, IMO, is by definition a two person thing. If its not a mutual thing, then it is not love.
"Wow, this person is cool and I would like them to like me" is not love.
Anyway, to the OP: just relax a little. many times these kinds of problems arise from trying too hard. You have made your intentions clear. There is nothing more you can do than that.
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07-27-2007, 07:17 PM
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The key is to be able to distinguish between lust and love.
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07-27-2007, 07:22 PM
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For me at that age, it was learning to differentiate between love and infatuation; being in love versus loving the idea of being in love.
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07-27-2007, 07:56 PM
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Originally Posted by Foreigner
There is an old middle eastern saying: Women want toasted ice.
Tell her to make up her damned mind. Making decisions and going with them is the essence of life.
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I thought the middle eastern saying was "Put your f***king veil back on - bitch !
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07-27-2007, 09:36 PM
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Woo... I just remembered about this. Talk about a headache. Good advice though. It's whatever, I'm just gonna roll with the flow. Plus I just met this other girl who likes kung-fu movies. That's always a plus...
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07-28-2007, 01:11 AM
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Originally Posted by hgrundy
Woo... I just remembered about this. Talk about a headache. Good advice though. It's whatever, I'm just gonna roll with the flow. Plus I just met this other girl who likes kung-fu movies. That's always a plus...
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Okay, then. That right there says it all. A lot of good advice wasted on, well, someone wasted. 
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07-28-2007, 05:00 PM
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no, it was great advice and duly noted. I just figure there's no sense in getting stressed out about it. It's not the end of the world. If she wants to come back to me, then I'll consider it, if not, I'm not gonna sit around crying about it. I know I love her and she loves me, but there's more to a relationship than love. And like you guys said, I'm young and still need some time to get my life in order. But your replies really made me think, thanks guys.
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07-29-2007, 05:25 PM
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Good idea grundy, just chill a little.
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I try not to drink anything harder than Gin before breakfast - W.C. Fields
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Secondaries: suck :)
Bottles: Chili Stout, Dry Irish Stout, Bitter Ass IPA, Headstrong Munich Lager clone, Lawnmower ale with chocolate and munich malt
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