 |
|
10-07-2012, 03:39 AM
|
#1
|
|
Feedback Score: 0 reviews
Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Kingston, PA
Posts: 1,808
Liked 39 Times on 34 Posts Likes Given: 36
|
Cheers to my uncle Hank, may he rest in peace.
|
|
I got a phone call from my mother last night. I could hear in her voice she was very upset. I figured my dad, or my grandmother(both 82 years old..., don't ask) had passed. I damn near blacked out when she told me my uncle Hank had a massive heart attack and died. ****ing WHAT?!?!?!?!?! I can't believe it, i'm shocked, stunned, ****ing incredulous. How does this happen? He was 59, 20 years in the Army, 6' 165 lbs, great health, loving wife of 10 years, all around class act. It just doesn't feel real. Needless to say, I'm drinking heavily tonight. I know it won't bring him back, but at least it keeps me from totally losing my ****. We were very close, and this is going to take a long time to reconcile in my own mind. Very sad. i'm lost. I don't know what else to say.
__________________
Anybody can be a rockstar when the rest of the room is wearing helmets and drooling on themselves.
Quote:
Originally Posted by dfc
Things are going great too. I think I've only punched her in the face 3 times!
|
FERMENTING: Heady Topper Clone?
CONDITIONING: 40 gallons KBS clone in a Jim Beam Barrel (since 11/24/12)
DRINKING: Smoked Robust Porter, Orange Coriander Pale Ale #5
THINKING: first foray into lagers?
|
|
|
10-07-2012, 05:27 AM
|
#2
|
|
Feedback Score: 0 reviews
Join Date: Jan 2012
Posts: 191
Liked 24 Times on 21 Posts
|
Sorry for your loss.
|
|
|
10-07-2012, 05:32 AM
|
#3
|
|
Lost in a Maze
Feedback Score: 0 reviews
Join Date: Dec 2011
Location: Laguna Niguel, CA
Posts: 1,132
Liked 199 Times on 158 Posts Likes Given: 426
|
That is way too young. Sorry for your loss.
__________________
I like to see a man of advancing years throwing caution to the wind. It's inspiring in a way. - Rita
|
|
|
10-07-2012, 02:06 PM
|
#4
|
|
Frau Administrator
Feedback Score: 0 reviews
Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: Upper Michigan
Posts: 51,724
Liked 1970 Times on 1512 Posts Likes Given: 89
|
Oh, no. I'm sorry to hear of this. You have my deepest sympathy, for you and your family. I can't believe how sudden this was, and how your family must feel.
__________________
Broken Leg Brewery
Giving beer a leg to stand on since 2006
|
|
|
10-07-2012, 04:11 PM
|
#5
|
|
Grows On You Like Yeast
Feedback Score: 0 reviews
Join Date: Jul 2011
Location: Astoria, NY
Posts: 5,195
Liked 992 Times on 738 Posts Likes Given: 1170
|
My condolensces. I just lost my grandmother on Thursday, so I kind of know what you mean.
__________________
You are more likely to have a threesome with members of the Japanese women's curling team whilst spinning a plate on your head than you are likely to screw up a batch of JAOM.
|
|
|
10-07-2012, 06:51 PM
|
#6
|
|
Brewin&BBQin
Feedback Score: 0 reviews
Join Date: Feb 2011
Location: Sheffield, Ohio
Posts: 19,473
Liked 806 Times on 732 Posts Likes Given: 234
|
Sorry to hear that,I hate getting "THE call". Pop was 69,mom was 64...both gone in the 90's. You know you're really alone when?...
Kinda unsettling to hear,as I'm 56,& with bad joints & such from too many decades of heavy manual labor,this stuff gets me to wondering. I'll drink to your loss in a bit. These things are hard to take with someone you love & were so close too. Pop wasn't just my father. He was my fishin/huntin buddy,barroom buddy,co-worker...so I feel ya man. It's tough,no gettin around it. So I'll tell ya somethin a co-worker told me once during divorce/dark times..."You never forget it,it just gets easier to live with". Try to remember the good times. & don't hold it in,you must grieve,because if you don't,well,...that way lies madness. Trust me. I've been there,including with my lil brother back in '72. Damn my big mouth...
__________________
Everything works if ya let it-Roady(meatloaf)
|
|
|
10-07-2012, 09:02 PM
|
#7
|
|
Feedback Score: 0 reviews
Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Kingston, PA
Posts: 1,808
Liked 39 Times on 34 Posts Likes Given: 36
|
Quote:
Originally Posted by unionrdr
Sorry to hear that,I hate getting "THE call". Pop was 69,mom was 64...both gone in the 90's. You know you're really alone when?...
Kinda unsettling to hear,as I'm 56,& with bad joints & such from too many decades of heavy manual labor,this stuff gets me to wondering. I'll drink to your loss in a bit. These things are hard to take with someone you love & were so close too. Pop wasn't just my father. He was my fishin/huntin buddy,barroom buddy,co-worker...so I feel ya man. It's tough,no gettin around it. So I'll tell ya somethin a co-worker told me once during divorce/dark times..."You never forget it,it just gets easier to live with". Try to remember the good times. & don't hold it in,you must grieve,because if you don't,well,...that way lies madness. Trust me. I've been there,including with my lil brother back in '72. Damn my big mouth...
|
Thanks Man. That helps.
Thank you everyone for your support. It's gonna be rough for awhile, but it'll get easier eventually. He was a Corona drinker, so I may have to pick some up and drink it in his honor.
Cheers everyone.
__________________
Anybody can be a rockstar when the rest of the room is wearing helmets and drooling on themselves.
Quote:
Originally Posted by dfc
Things are going great too. I think I've only punched her in the face 3 times!
|
FERMENTING: Heady Topper Clone?
CONDITIONING: 40 gallons KBS clone in a Jim Beam Barrel (since 11/24/12)
DRINKING: Smoked Robust Porter, Orange Coriander Pale Ale #5
THINKING: first foray into lagers?
|
|
|
10-07-2012, 09:10 PM
|
#8
|
|
← Moster Truck Force →
Feedback Score: 0 reviews
Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: ☼ Clearwater, FL ☼
Posts: 13,873
Liked 1264 Times on 891 Posts Likes Given: 798
|
That sucks. I got one of those calls once for my uncle, same deal, he was only 44 though. Looked like a frigging swimmer, lean and tall and athletic. He was a great guy, too, my Uncle Jim. Class act. Sometimes the best go first. Just writing this makes me sad.
So drink and weep and let it all out - and I'll join you and raise one for your Uncle Hank right now.
__________________
Now there's some take delight in the carriages a rolling
and others take delight in the hurling and the bowling
but I take delight in the juice of the barley
and courting pretty fair maids in the morning bright and early
|
|
|
10-07-2012, 10:02 PM
|
#9
|
|
Where is my screw on thumb???
Feedback Score: 0 reviews
Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: louisville
Posts: 9,212
Liked 632 Times on 526 Posts Likes Given: 856
|
life goes on. I hope you take that in the best way.
I mean that sympathetically and I take comfort in that myself for I have suffered a loss too.
__________________
justwhatthehellareYOUlookingat?
|
|
|
10-07-2012, 11:41 PM
|
#10
|
|
Feedback Score: 0 reviews
Join Date: Jul 2012
Posts: 151
Liked 9 Times on 6 Posts
|
Hey, I am no stranger to loss, myself... And it never gets easier. But if there is one thing I can add, it would be this: Loved ones might leave us physically, but never leave our memories or our hearts. So share those memories and the love felt, and celebrate the life that was.
|
|
|
| Thread Tools |
|
|
| Display Modes |
Linear Mode
|
Similar Threads
|
| Thread |
Thread Starter |
Forum |
Replies |
Last Post |
|
Rush or Hank Jr?
|
Fletch78 |
Drunken Ramblings and Mindless Mumbling |
50 |
10-29-2010 06:15 AM |
|
Cheers, to the last drop!
|
Chudz |
Drunken Ramblings and Mindless Mumbling |
0 |
01-12-2010 06:23 PM |
|
Now I can rest easy.
|
Orfy |
Drunken Ramblings and Mindless Mumbling |
27 |
02-12-2009 05:11 PM |
|
Observations from Uncle Gerry
|
Rhoobarb |
Drunken Ramblings and Mindless Mumbling |
3 |
10-10-2007 10:22 PM |
|
Cheers!!!
|
Wheat King |
Drunken Ramblings and Mindless Mumbling |
7 |
12-22-2006 06:24 PM |
|
|
|