A couple suggestions:
#10 - rolling the bottles around to rouse the yeast: this generally isn't necessary.
#5 - 4 ounces of dextrose (probably came pre-measured with your kit): you can dial in your carbonation level using some brewing software or on-line carbonation calculators. Some people always use the same amount (3/4 cup, etc.) but you can get more or less carbonation to match your beer style by adjusting the amount of sugar -- just don't go crazy with it or you'll over-carbonate and have potential for bottle bombs. Also, it's best to weigh the sugar rather than dry measure.
Lastly: temperature. If the brew was below room temp (70-72) or sitting on a concrete floor, it will affect carbonation.
Another possibility (although not likely) is that you didn't get a good seal while capping. I've also heard of people who forgot to add the bottling sugar because they had a few too many before they started the bottling process.
For now, I'd try waiting a little (the beer can only improve) and maybe move it to someplace a little warmer.