I'm a clean freak so would it be it be OK to fill bottling bucket up with sanitizer put tubing siphon in there then just put whole bottles in fill em up drain solution back in bucket or is there a better safer more sanitary way?
I just use one of these and fill it with Starsan.http://www.google.com/products/catalog?q=vinator&oe=utf-8&rls=org.mozilla:en-USfficial&client=firefox-a&um=1&ie=UTF-8&tbm=shop&cid=1356692419609692453&sa=X&ei=UP7GT4X iLKGK2gXI0PSeCw&ved=0CHMQ8wIwAg
Then I put them upside down on the top rack of my dishwasher (sanitized of course) to drain.
The way you suggested should work fine though.
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