OK. It's good to know you are planning a secondary. We just didn't want you adding priming sugar to your secondary (that's that part were we thought you were going astray).
There is no set time to go to a secondary. Many of us just automatically do it after 1 week. Mostly to get the beer off of the yeast. You've seen those brewers recommending the 1-2-3 method (1 week primary, 2 weeks secondary, 3 weeks in the bottle) before.
The "making sure the primary fermentation has slowed down quite a bit" part is usually passed in a week.
You will not have any trouble letting it sit an extra day or 2.
Many of us will take a hydrometer reading (check gravity) to see how low the sugars have fermented out. If it's near the FG then it is a good idea to rack to the secondary. This period will allow your beer to clear and mellow some.
Take a gravity reading from the secondary. If it is within the range for the style then it's time to bottle. Here's where you add the priming sugar to the bottling bucket and then syphon the brew on top of it.
You may have noticed that I am one of the major backers of using a hydrometer? Many people don't use them. For the most part they are guessing their brew is done. Not that it's not mind you, but it is always a guess. My point is if you take a gravity reading then you will know it is within the range for the style and fermentation is complete.
If you bottle prior to the fermentation being complete, for example, bottle at 1.018 when your FG for the style is 1.010, then you throw more sugar on top of that at bottling time, well you can be fairly certain that you just made a batch of bottle grenades (they will explode).
Of course, over time you may be one of those that do/will not use it. It's all personal choice.