I have found it gets easier over time to just let them sit. I get asked all the time, is it ready yet? NO! I've been going a week to a week and a half in the primary, two weeks to two and a half weeks secondary, and well, I've only had bottles for 2.5 weeks, so yeah, still waiting on those.
I did a brewers best IPA, and it has gotten so much clearer sitting in the secondary, versus bottling straight outta the primary.