I'd say that non of the starter kits have exactly what you need. I bought the basic kit and added a carboy to use to secondary when I wanted to add fruit. In 3 years I've used it twice for that. I have used it for a primary fermenter and I added another fermenter bucket so I could have 3 brews going at once. I'm even considering a 3rd bucket.
Since you don't know just what you need and what you will be doing with the kit in the future, start with the most basic kit. It will make great beer and you can spend what you saved from the deluxe kit on more ingredients. If you decide later on that you really need what is in the deluxe kit, you'll know exactly what you want to add.