Ahhhh, the voice of reason to help the panic of a noob!
I didn't think about just boiling the "tea water" and adding hops and such (whirfloc). After the 60 minute boil I will have the following options:
1) Have enough headspace to add all my LME/DME to my single 4 gallon pot, then cool in the snow
2) Pour all into my primary, add LME/DME, top off to 5 gallons put outside in snow
3) Divide between a 4 gallon and a 2.5 gallon pot and add LME/DME to those and cool separately then combine in fermentor
Life is good again
