Fridge temp? It sounds like the beer is carbed ok, but the co2 being "knocked out" of suspension, giving you a big head and seemingly low carbonation.
I'm going through that right now- my faucets are relatively warm, and the first pint is like that- a bigger head and less carb in the beer, while the second pint is perfect. My solution is to pour my partner's beer first!
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