Welcome!
Your first question, I think, is a curious one...I know there are definitely opinions on what various yeasts work well for certain mead types (such as what I note below; ie, 71B being good for melomels, particularly dark fruit melomels), but I'm not aware of any "pairings" being made with yeast and certain honey varietals.
If you don't already have it, you probably would be well served to get a copy of the 'mead bible,' http://www.amazon.com/Compleat-Meadmaker-Production-Award-winning-Variations/dp/0937381802/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1327285672&sr=8-1. Threre's an extensive table of yeast strains in there with recommendations on what sorts of meads they are good/best for.
I would suppose you could consider that if you have a very dark, robust honey like buckwheat as an example, you could make a case to pick a yeast that is known to stand up to a hearty red wine must. Likewise, perhaps a yeast that is known to be good for a white wine would be better for a honey like your orange blossom, or perhaps Sourwood that have lighter, more delicate aromas? (Realize I'm totally just throwing this out there as a theory...I have no direct experience here!)
Regarding hopped mead, check out
this thread...lots of good info on hop metheglins. I've already done versions with English hops (EKG, Fuggle), and with American hops (Cascade, Chinook, and Simcoe). I have plans eventually to do batches using continental/noble hops (probably Northern Brewer for bittering and Saaz, Hallertau, and Tettnanger for aroma/dry) and a New Zealand batch using Nelson Sauvin, Pacifica, etc...
For the berry mead, whether it's ready for October will depend on a vast multitude of variables, including but probably not limited to: yeast type (ie; 71B is pretty good for quick turn arounds, and good for melomels), fermentation handling (temperature, use of nutrients, oxygenation/aeration/degassing, etc.), and OG/FG levels (it's been said that a little residual sweetness can hide a multitude of sins when it comes to off flavors...) IF you are still running hot and dry on this one, you could consider stabilizing and backsweetening it a bit.