Basically, you answered your own question.
Fementation, and all that goes with it, is a natural process that pretty much can't be altered without consequences.
As you already know from past experience...your consequence was cloudy mead.
However, I have noticed that if you use half the amount of honey in the same amount of water and it will clear faster because there is less sugar for the yeast to convert. And cold crashing does drop more yeast out of solution in a shorter time.
The trick is to try not to rush a schedule as much as it is to plan ahead.
What clearing agent did you use last time?