I am not sure if it is okay to mention another forum bot Oskaar and company at gotmead.com is a great resource for helping you work through a special recipe. I have used that site for years to tweak recipes and learn.
If you just want a great recipe- I made the following at the request of a friend for their wedding. I also entered a couple bottles into a regional brewing competition and earned a medal.
Kurt and Cathy's Strawberry/Banana Mead. It is good in a year and gets even better with time (not 50 years but I have one that is around 5 years old and is still very good). I made mine sparkeling using a Keg.
http://wiki.homebrewersassociation.org/MeadDay2006