I'm just wondering around how long most meads need to age before there good ? Is it about the same as wine? I made a blackberry mead. Only a gallon of it. Sooo when I do drink it I want it to be friggen prime time.
Really, the biggest thing for me is the alcohol content, intensity of the flavors, and the fusel alcohol character...
If you made a reasonably low alcohol mead (<10%) - then it will be more drinkable sooner...
If you added super intense flavors - then sometimes they need to age longer to mellow.... Say you used a LOT of blackberry and those blackberries were very acid - it might take a while to mellow... If you only used a little and they were fairly mild, it will be better sooner rather than later....
Really - the only way you will know is to take a sip once in a while...
6 months sounds like a number where if you take a snip - you will know if it needs to sit longer or it tastes great and is ready.
My meads are drinkable at 6 months, but even better at 12 months. If I were in your position, I'd start drinking some at 6 months, but save half for the full year. If you like what you're tasting at 6 months, start a new batch.