sam's blue light is the best beer store in the state. very shady looking but awesome selection. you can even have a pint while you shop now.
http://samsquikshop.com/
busy bee in raleigh is a great bar with an excellent craft selection.
http://busybeeraleigh.com/
raleigh times is a great bar with an excellent craft selection.
http://www.raleightimesbar.com/
tylers in durham has a great selection
http://www.tylerstaproom.com/restaurants/durham
homebrew store in raleigh is affiliated with this bar
http://brewmastersbarandgrill.com/
The pourhouse in raleigh can be a neat place to catch some music at night. They have a lot of average beers.
Natty Green is boring average run of the mill beer. Not even worth going if you are local.
big boss in raleigh taproom is alright.
http://bigbossbrewing.com
The best breweries in the state are Duck Rabbit, Mother Earth and Pisgah. You can't get Pisgah in the Raleigh/Durham area. It is probably the best.