Yeah I was all bent out of shape. I called the 18 year old waiter over and shouted "You really expect my wife to drink this? This glass completely ruins the nose of the ester profile allowing the banana to take over while overshadowing the fig, clove, and candi-sugar, creating one unbalanced mess of a beer." She looked at me like I just escaped from a mental institution.
Okay that was total sarcasm, but could possibly be a story that would be commonplace in a wine bar. It may even been an acceptable complaint. I give BJ's credit, they have a WAY better beer selection than 99.999% of restaurant chains that i've ever seen in my life.
And Revvy, I absolutely agree with all of your thoughts. My general point was more that while we take some of these things for granted, the overwhelming majority of restaurants have absolutely no respect for or knowledge of beer. The only customers who would appreciate this sort of thing is the hardcore beer geeks, which is about .0000001% of the population, so it's not worth it. The general public doesn't aspire to learn about beer because there isn't a class/money/aspirational association with it as there is in the wine world.