Wow, it's amazing each year (or maybe the amazing part is that each year I'm amazed?) to see how different the times are from one area to another...
We have 92 acres of orchard here, probably not more than 4% is in pears and plums, the rest is in various apple cultivars. We just finished the apple bloom this past week, pears were done about 2 week before that.
Rhubarb is going great guns. Strawberries will be ready in another 10-12 days or so. Blackberries and raspberries aren't even in bloom yet...
I have just planted a ('nother) small vineyard consisting of Cynthianna, Vivant, Traminette, Chardonel, and Chambourcin. Three years more and they'll be producing. I'm looking for some land to plant more. But, if I do that, I probably won't leave the area, lol! I'm no longer fond of 9-month winters, 3-month springs, 3-month autumns and when summer comes pray it's on a Sunday afternoon so we can enjoy it if it's not raining. And I'm only half kidding! I'm very much looking forward to moving to better climes; better for people, and better for grapes.
But, like the vines, I'll grow where I'm planted.
And as for Scripture, the notion of God being against the DRINK is indeed rubbish (no disrespect to your mother or anyone else). Traditions of men, you might say. He is, however, very much against the
being drunk, as you are correct in stating. It was He that gave the wine, after all, and He that put the yeast with the grape naturally. Remember that wine was used to preserve the grape harvest from going bad, not to make something whereby we could become inebriated. Beer was used to preserve the grain harvest from spoiling and being eaten by the rats and mice, and hops was added later as a natural preservative. Now, in our days of leisure, we make things to please us rather than simply to preserve in liquid form.
I know that there's no convincing most folks who've got it set that alcohol is bad, and I'm not suggesting that you try. It just is what it is.
Best wishes to you!