I did the same thing - bought Cry Havoc in january, it said best by April, and I didn't get around to making a starter till 2 weeks ago.
It'll be fine, as long as you've kept it in the fridge, it should take off like a rocket. +1 to making a starter, but I wouldn't worry about making it huge. I'd do about 1200-1400mL in a 2L flask or 1/2 gallon growler. Should give it PLENTY of Oomph to take off with.
I've got my Cry Havoc in a batch of Apfelwein right now, in fact. It took off faster than the Lalvin EC-1118 did.
As far as steps, I would make a ~500mL starter first and let it ferment out. That takes us from today (Wed, noonish) to lets say Friday AM. Boil up your next round of starter wort on Thursday PM, make about 900mL worth... let it cool over night, pitch it Friday AM. It'll ferment throughout the day Fri and through the evening. I'll bet the krausen finishes dropping either Friday night or Saturday morning as you're getting ready to brew. Should be JUST fine.
