Update:
We found another bottle of irish creme syrup, it had 16 grams per oz or 8 per tbsp, which is less than the other bottle but not by much. We decided after some tasting that the coffee in the newer irish cream was pretty heavy and the sugar in it was clashing with the rest of the beer. After some deliberation we decided that the sweetness will probably ferment out and after some conditioning the coffee would mellow with the rest of the beer. We added about 2/3's of the bottle, the bottle being 25.4 (we added around 16 oz), to half a gallon of water and boiled it then cooled it and racked the beer onto it. Shortly after fermentation kicked up again and is pretty active (i think it was around 10 a minute). We're hoping that when we bottle it in two weeks that the irish creme we added would have mellowed and gave just a slight Irish Creme Flavor. If it's too strong we will just prime with priming sugar if it's pretty light and mellow Irish flavor we're going to use the smaller container of Irish Cream to prime. In our taste test the small bottle of Irish Creme did better than the big. What we're hoping for is the Big and Small bottle to combine together and give a nice Irish Creme kick to the beer without overpowering it... I'm optimistic about it and think it will turn out fantastic. Hopefully the primary taste will come from the small bottle and the background effect will come from the bigger bottle.
Our gravity before primary was 1.071 (60*F) and we fermented down to 1.014 giving us 7.48% ABV. Promash projected it 7.63 and it probably would have reached that had we let it go to 1.012 as projected but we were going to add the syrup and figured it wouldn't hurt anything, now adding the amount of sugar in the syrup to Promash we're looking at about 8.33% ABV

... Just hoping the other ingredients in the Syrups will keep it from drying out too badly. I have high hopes...
This along with EdWort's Apfelwein is going to make for a very very fun St. Patricks Day....