sorry didn't get to chime in with my actual thoughts yesterday and just listed possibilities as that is prob not what you were after.
My guess is your sanitizer or cleaning agent is leaving a film on your brew equipment or your household detergent is the prob, or at least not helping.
You didn't say if you bottle or keg, so will assume bottle. a lot of my first beers i brewed with exact same sani and cleaner and equip have a lot better head and retention on kegs.
I did a light side cream ale at 1.041 og and with proper carb and the sam adams glasses (etched) i can keep a nice head on even this light a beer all the way down.
Hope this helps.
